There are many people who do not understand themselves as well as what they are capable of doing and achieving. This is commonly referred to as self-concept. Self-conceptualization involves understanding as well as accepting oneself as well as ones abilities. This is a very important concept since it dictates the way your subconscious mind works at all time with aim of fulfilling your self-concept. This will in turn dictate whether or not you achieve all that you dream of as well as become the person you want to be.
It is very difficult to do something that does not go hand in hand with your self-concept. Trying this will always prove to be useless. If you cannot program your mind to achieving a certain status then as much as you try to achieve the same status you will never be able to make it. Instead you will end up sinking into the unknown. The most obvious example is a student who does not believe that he can score straight As. With such a mentality, however much such a student tries, he will never be able to score the As that he wishes so much to score. Challenging your self-concept is almost impossible hence it is important to try to change it instead of attempting to challenge it.
In the process of upgrading your own self-concept, automatically your subconscious mind will change your every aspect of thinking in order to fulfill that particular self-concept. It is therefore up to you to change your self-concept and see your subconscious adjust accordingly. It would be a mistake trying to change people by making their negative side known to them. You are better off trying to change that particular person by letting him know just how you want him to be. The same applies to self-concept and subconscious. For example it is better to tell a person that he is brilliant and the characters he portrays do not belong to a person with his capabilities. This person will automatically try to match the self-concept that you have formed in his mind. It is also important that you do not allow yourself or even others to call you names that in one way or the other suppress your abilities as well as strengths.
Such names will only end up pulling you down and suppressing your abilities to achieve big thing and the kind of status that you want to achieve. You instead need to stay around people who in a way believe in you and are always motivating as well as influencing you into doing positive things that you never used to like doing before. It is such people that will help you soar to greater heights in your life as well as make all the difference in your life.
Undermining your self-concept is the worst thing that you will ever do to yourself. This will lead you to the worst depths of life where you will be seen as a non-achiever not because of anyone else but yourself. You need to ensure that you use your self-concept to your advantage at all times for you to become the kind of person that you as well as the society want you to be.
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